Therapy for 20s & 30s folks navigating relationship anxiety, people-pleasing, breakups, and dating insecurity so they can feel more confident and secure in their relationships

Serving adults in San Diego and virtually across California

Currently offering Virtual Therapy and In-Office Therapy‍(waitlist)for adults 18+

Accepting New Clients Beginning August 10th, 2026!

Marisa Padilla, LMFT

Welcome! My name is Marisa (pronounced Muh-Ree-Suh), and I am the Founder of Illuminated Life Therapy. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 136357) based in beautiful San Diego, California. I help Gen Z and Millennial adults navigate relationship anxiety, dating insecurity, people-pleasing, trauma, and self-worth challenges so they can feel more confident, secure, and grounded in their relationships. For the past 5 years I’ve specialized in supporting young adults who feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, low self-worth, fear of rejection, difficulty speaking up about their needs, or unhealthy relationship patterns.

My approach is warm, collaborative, trauma-informed, and culturally sensitive, integrating Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). I offer virtual therapy across California and in-person sessions in San Diego through my private pay practice.

Therapy with me is a space to better understand yourself, build security within yourself, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Whether you prefer the convenience of Telehealth (online therapy) or the traditional In-Office session, let’s work together to prioritize your mental health, enhance your relationships, and support you in taking steps toward a meaningful life.

Serving those navigating:

  • Relationship Challenges

  • Anxiety

  • Low Self-Esteem

  • Trauma

  • Racial Trauma

  • Life Transitions

  • Grief & Loss

  • Identity Development

The Post-Breakup Guide: Healing, Rebuilding & Owning Your Next Chapter

The Post-Breakup Guide: Healing, Rebuilding & Owning Your Next Chapter

A 10 Part Course to Moving Forward After a Breakup. A therapist-created guide and video course designed to help you navigate your breakup, process difficult emotions, rebuild self-worth, strengthen boundaries, and move forward with greater confidence and clarity.

$97

The Post-Breakup Guide is here!

A therapist-created guide and video course designed to help you navigate your breakup, process difficult emotions, rebuild self-worth, strengthen boundaries, and move forward with greater confidence and clarity.

Listen up!

Marisa speaks on Trust & Thrive Podcast with host Tara Montazeri, discussing all things 20s & 30s! Check it out here:

Specialized Populations:

  • Therapists, Healthcare & Helping Professionals

  • BIPOC Folks & Interracial Relationships

  • Entrepreneurs

  • Athletes & Former Athletes