Therapy for Gen Z and Millennial folks navigating relationship anxiety, people-pleasing, and dating insecurity so they can feel more confident and secure in their relationships

Serving adults in San Diego and virtually across California

Currently offering Virtual Therapy and In-Office Therapy‍ ‍for adults 18+

Accepting New Clients Beginning June 15th, 2026!

Marisa Padilla, LMFT

Welcome! My name is Marisa (pronounced Muh-Ree-Suh), and I am the Founder of Illuminated Life Therapy. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT 136357) based in beautiful San Diego, California. I help Gen Z and Millennial adults navigate relationship anxiety, dating insecurity, people-pleasing, trauma, and self-worth challenges so they can feel more confident, secure, and grounded in their relationships. For the past 5 years I’ve specialized in supporting young adults who feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, fear of rejection, difficulty speaking up about their needs, or unhealthy relationship patterns.

My approach is warm, collaborative, trauma-informed, and culturally sensitive, integrating Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). I offer virtual therapy across California and in-person sessions in San Diego through my private pay practice.

Therapy with me is a space to better understand yourself, build security within yourself, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Whether you prefer the convenience of Telehealth (online therapy) or the traditional In-Office session, let’s work together to prioritize your mental health, enhance your relationships, and support you in taking steps toward a meaningful life.

Serving those navigating:

  • Relationship Challenges

  • Anxiety

  • Low Self-Esteem

  • Trauma

  • Racial Trauma

  • Life Transitions

  • Grief & Loss

  • Identity Development

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A 10 Part Course to Moving Forward After a Breakup

$39

The Post-Breakup Guide is here!

A therapist-created guide and video course designed to help you navigate your breakup, process difficult emotions, rebuild self-worth, strengthen boundaries, and move forward with greater confidence and clarity.

Listen up!

Marisa speaks on Trust & Thrive Podcast with host Tara Montazeri, discussing all things 20s & 30s! Check it out here:

Specialized Populations:

  • Therapists, Healthcare & Helping Professionals

  • Interracial Relationships

  • Entrepreneurs

  • Athletes & Former Athletes